Well-being is a practice.
We think of well-being like something we achieve if we get enough things right.
The right relationship.
The right work.
The right body.
Enough money.
Enough healing.
Enough insight.
But hunger always returns after a meal.
Tiredness returns after sleep.
Desire returns after satisfaction.
So well-being isn't an acquisition or achievement. It isn't a static state. It's a continual process.
Physical health isn't about being hungry or being full, it's directly related to the rhythm of
hunger → satiation → exertion → hunger → satiation → exertion.
Similiarly, psychological health isn't about having ambition or being content, it's directly related to the rhythm of
desire → satisfaction → growth → desire → satisfaction → growth.
That's the rhythm of being alive.
Well-being comes from consistently recognizing our needs and responding to them well.
| We call that Tending.